Unveil the Tail

I’m a little late to the game on this, but I continue to be blown away by how good ABC’s The Muppets is. Tuesday’s episode was brilliant, and they continue to top themselves every week. I don’t understand why the ratings are so low. Dammit, why do the shows that I love always have poor ratings?

A brief synopsis for the episode: Continue reading

What I learned From My Mother

Two years ago today, my mother suffered a massive blood clot to her brain and passed away. She and my father were on vacation in Palm Springs. It was very sudden, and although she wasn’t in the best of health, it was unexpected. From what I can tell, she was having a great time on vacation, and didn’t suffer when it happened. I take some comfort in that. We should all be so lucky to go that way.

I got the news just hours before one of my best friend’s wedding. Needless to say, it was a very tumultuous day. It was the beautiful wedding and the love between my friend and his wife that kept me from falling apart that day.

But this is not a post about me. This is about my mom.

What I Learned From My Mom

My mom was a very giving person. She believed in helping others, and she would sacrifice her own desires to help someone in need. That is what I learned. I learned that the greatest virtue is giving of yourself. A good person helps their fellows, they build a family, an extended family, and a community.

I also learned that it’s near impossible to change the world alone. I learned that what you can change is your world. You can focus the scale down to just your circle, and change their lives. You can teach those people to improve the lives around them, and pass that on, and they pass the same on. That’s how you better the world. It’s not the grand gestures. It’s the small ones.

I do my best to follow her example. I don’t always succeed, but who knows the kind of impact I’ve had. I’d like to think that I’ve made my small patch of earth a little better. It’s a lesson well learned. I hope that more people learn it.

Be Like Mom. Pass It On

So if you ever wondered while I sometimes get all preachy and hippie-dippie here, now you know. I write about heroism often, because as a writer, I deal in heroes and villains. From my Mom, I learned that heroism isn’t strength of arm, it’s the willingness to sacrifice for the greater good.

I try not to preach, but I honestly do think that people should try to focus less on the big picture, and more on the little one. Be a good example and you will make a difference. Do what you can, give what you can. Change your scale to change the world.

My mother was a good person, a good teacher, and a good role model. I hope that I do her justice. Rest in peace, I love you.

Some Inspirational Bullshit From Me

So I had a bit of a philosophical moment last night (yes, there were “sandwiches” involved).  I thought about how in the vastness of the universe, nothing we do has any effect or real meaning.

You’re bringin’ me down, man

This was bringing me down and ruining my sandwich, but then I thought something else.  The universe may be infinitely vast, but we are not.  We exist in a small place, in a small amount of time.  Who gives a shit?  Everything that we do affects the world around us as we know it.  It effects the people we know, and the environment we live it.  It’s about scale.  If you think small, think local, than anything you do has “universe” changing effects.

You can’t change the universe, or even the world.  You can, however, change yourself, your family, even your town.  The ant may be insignificant to us, in an anthill, each one is as important as can be.

Take it or leave it.  It’s all fucking philosophical stuff that has no meaning besides what you give it.

Maybe the sandwich was given to me by aliens?

Mind…blown